Koru Couples Counselling
Tired of fighting? Longing for deeper connection? I help couples transform their struggles. Want to feel whole and more alive
A New Way to Love
The Journey to Deep Connection
Building the Shared Place Between You
The Journey to Deep Connection
I believe that even in the midst of relationship distress there’s a powerful opportunity—not just to repair what feels broken but to expand your awareness, deepen your connection, and grow together.
As Dr. Michael Laitman writes, “Kabbalah is a method for the expansion of human awareness through connection of desires.” In my work with coup
I believe that even in the midst of relationship distress there’s a powerful opportunity—not just to repair what feels broken but to expand your awareness, deepen your connection, and grow together.
As Dr. Michael Laitman writes, “Kabbalah is a method for the expansion of human awareness through connection of desires.” In my work with couples I see this truth every day: when partners open up to one another—not just with words but with a genuine desire to connect—something shifts. Awareness expands. Patterns soften and often a deeper force of love and purpose begins to emerge.
If you're feeling stuck, disconnected, or uncertain about the future you’re not alone. I’m here to help you rediscover the deeper meaning behind your relationship and reconnect with what really matters.
Every relationship faces moments of disconnection—times when partners feel more like roommates than soulmates. At Koru Couples Counselling, I guide couples to move beyond surface-level fixes, fostering a deeper, more meaningful connection that transcends daily challenges.
I'm Amanda. I've spent the past 25+ years helping hundreds of couples (and many individuals) navigate the hard stuff—conflict, disconnection, and the silent spaces in between. My approach is rooted in compassion, honesty, and deep respect for each person’s inner world. I’m certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy which has helped many couples move from disconnection to lasting closeness but what truly guides my work is a deeper understanding of human connection—how it forms, how it breaks down, and how it can be restored.
I believe that relationship struggles are not signs of failure but invitations to grow and with the right support you can find your way back to each other.
Unfolding From Within
Building the Shared Place Between You
The Journey to Deep Connection
Is This You?
Maybe you're stuck in the same loop—blame, silence, distance—wondering how love turned into walking on eggshells. Maybe you're both trying but it still feels like you're on different sides. Or maybe you're simply tired; tired of not being seen, not being met, not being understood.
Most couples come to me thinking something is
Is This You?
Maybe you're stuck in the same loop—blame, silence, distance—wondering how love turned into walking on eggshells. Maybe you're both trying but it still feels like you're on different sides. Or maybe you're simply tired; tired of not being seen, not being met, not being understood.
Most couples come to me thinking something is wrong with their relationship but what if the discomfort you're feeling is actually pointing to what’s right? Not because the pain is good—but because it's waking you up. It's showing you the gap between what you have… and what you long for.That tension? It’s not the end. It’s the beginning of something deeper—if you learn how to work with it, together.
How I Work
In our work together, I help you slow down and look beneath the surface—beyond the arguments, past the roles you’ve each gotten stuck in. We’ll begin to uncover what’s really happening underneath: the unmet longings, the defenses that took root over time, and the deep desire—often hidden behind frustration—to feel close again.
I see conflict not as a sign of incompatibility but as a sign that something important is trying to emerge.
The challenge is that each of us tends to protect ourselves when we feel pain. We pull back, shut down, blame, or push away. Not because we don’t care—but because we matter so much and don’t know what else to do.
My role is to help you move beyond that instinct to protect and instead, learn how to reach for one another and respond in a new way.
A way that builds trust, intimacy, and shared purpose—through presence, responsibility, and conscious effort.
When that shift happens, couples often tell me the relationship itself begins to feel like a living space—something greater than either of them alone. Something worth showing up for.
Building the Shared Place Between You
Building the Shared Place Between You
Building the Shared Place Between You
Work With Me
I work online (only) with people who are ready to go deeper—not just to fix surface problems but to understand the deeper dynamics that keep them apart and learn how to come back into connection, together.
I offer:
- Couples Counselling – for partners who want to rebuild connection, navigate conflict, or deepen intimacy
- Individ
Work With Me
I work online (only) with people who are ready to go deeper—not just to fix surface problems but to understand the deeper dynamics that keep them apart and learn how to come back into connection, together.
I offer:
- Couples Counselling – for partners who want to rebuild connection, navigate conflict, or deepen intimacy
- Individual Support – for those carrying pain, uncertainty, or resentment within their relationship
If you're unsure where to start, I invite you to book a free 15-minute consultation. It’s a chance to meet, ask questions, and see if this work feels right for you.
Let’s begin something meaningful—together.
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